This checklist is a work in progress and will always be.

The checklist should be filled out by the submissive for the Dominant's use.

 

If the submissive doesn't understand what the activity is about the submissive should put a "?" and this can be a flag for the Dominant for further explanation (Just click on the activity to have a small description from our glossary).

 

Ever done? Should be answered by "yes", "no", or "ol" for online only!

 

Like to? Should be answered as:

Never:

A hard limit, something the sub has an aversion to.

No:

No desire to do this, but does not have a particular aversion to it. Something the sub would consider doing however to please a dominant.

Maybe:

Thinks that he or she would probably like the activity, could be something that is an enjoyable fantasy, but that the sub is not sure will translate into an enjoyable real life activity. Also could be something the sub wants but is embarrassed about wanting.

Yes:

Is quite sure that this activity is something that he or she would like to do, perhaps a reoccurring fantasy and often something that the sub has done in the past and enjoyed.

Fetish:

the sub finds this activity a wild turn on and has a particular fetish or preoccupation with it.

 

At the end of this page, a Word version is available to download.

 

BDSMCIRCLE CHECK LIST ACTIVITY	Ever done?				Like To?
	yes	no	ol		never	no	maybe	yes	fetish
Abrasion:
Age Play (not pedophilia):
Anal Sex:
Analingus (Rimming):
Animal Roles:
Arm Sleeve:
Asphyxiation (Breath Play):
Ball Gags:
Ball Stretching (men only):
Beating Hard:
Beating Soft:
Biting (Being Bitten):
Blindfold:
Bondage Heavy:
Bondage Light:
Boot Worship:
Branding:
Breast Bondage(woman only):
Breast Fucking(woman only):
Breast Whipping:
Brown Showers:
Butt Plugs:
Cages:
Caning:
Catheter:
Chains:
Chastity Device:
Chauffeuring:
Choking:
Chores (Domestic Service):
Chosen Clothing For:
Chosen Food For:
Clothespins:
Cock Worship:
Collars :
Corsets :
Crop :
Cuckold :
Cuffs :
Cunnilingus :
Dilatation :
Ear Plugs :
Electricity :
Enemas:
Examination:
Exhibitionism:
Eye Contact Restriction:
Face Sitting:
Face Slapping:
Fantasy Rape:
Fantasy Gang Rape:
Fellatio:
Feminization (men only):
Fisting:
Flogging:
Following Orders:
Foot Worship :
Forced Feminization (men only) :
Forced Homosexuality :
Forced Masturbation :
Forced Nudity :
Gag (Being Gagged):
Gag With Duct Tape:
Genital Sex:
Given Away:
Golden Shower:
Gynarchyr (men only):
Hair Brush:
Hair Pulling:
Hi-Heel Worship:
Hood:
Hot Waxing (Hair Removal):
Humiliation in private:
Humiliation in public:
Ice (Ice Cube):
Initiation Rites:
Injection:
Kneeling:
Knife play:
Leather Restraints:
Mantra and Meditation:
Massage:
Medical scene:
Mind Fuck:
Name Change:
Nipple Clamp:
Orgasm Control:
Outdoor scene:
Paddling:
Piercing:
Pussy Flogging (Women Only):
Pussy Worship:
Rope Bondage:
Saran Wrapping:
Scratching:
Sensory Deprivation:
Serving as a Maid:
Serving as Furniture:
Serving Other Dom(me) (supervised only):
Sex (With Other(s) Submissive):
Shaving:
Spanking:
Speculum:
Speech Restriction:
Spreader Bar:
Stable (Serving With Other Sumbissives):
Standing In The Corner:
Stock:
Strait Jacket:
Strap On Dildo:
Suspension:
Tattoo:
Teasing:
Tickling:
To Be Moralized:
Uniforms:
Voyeurism:
Wax (Hot Wax):
Whip:
Wearing Latex (Rubber):
Wearing Lycra (Spandex):
Wearing Leather:
Wearing PVC:
Wearing Sexy Clothing:
Wrestling:

 

To download a Word version of the BDSM Checklist: BDSM Checklist.

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