D/S LIFESTYLE
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BDSM Checklist

by Mistress Catharine / katy

 

This checklist is a work in progress. More will be added over time. It is planned to add a description of some of the activities in the glossary later.

The checklist should be filled out by the submissive for the Dominant's use.

If the submissive doesn't understand what the activity is about the submissive should put a "?" and this can be a flag for the Dominant for further explanation

Ever done? Should be answered by "yes", "no", or "ol" for online only!

Like to? Should be answered as:

Never: a hard limit, something the sub has an aversion to.

No: no desire to do this, but does not have a particular aversion to it. Something the sub would consider doing however to please a dominant.

Maybe: thinks that he or she would probably like the activity, could be something that is an enjoyable fantasy, but that the sub is not sure will translate into an enjoyable real life activity. Also could be something the sub wants but is embarrassed about wanting.

Yes: is quite sure that this activity is something that he or she would like to do, perhaps a reoccurring fantasy and often something that the sub has done in the past and enjoyed.

Fetish: the sub finds this activity a wild turn on and has a particular fetish or preoccupation with it.

 

BDSMCIRCLE CHECK LIST

ACTIVITY

Ever done?
Like To?
yes
no
ol
never
no
maybe
yes

fetish

                   
Abrasion                  
Age play (not pedophilia)                  
Anal plugs                  
Anal sex                  
Animal roles                  
Arm and leg sleeves                  
Asphyxiation                  
Ball gag                  
Ball stretching                  
Beating hard                  
Beating soft                  
Being blindfolded                  
Being gagged                  
Being serviced (sex)                  
Bestiality                  
Biting                  
Bondage- heavy                  
Bondage - light                  
Boot worship                  
Branding                  
Breast bondage                  
Breast fucking                  
Breast whipping                  
Brown showers                  
Cages                  
Caning - english                  
Caning - sensation                  
Catheterization                  
Chains                  
Chastity device                  
Chauffeuring                  
Choking                  
Chores (domestic service)                  
Chosen clothing for                  
Chosen food for                  
Clothespins                  
Cock worship                  
Collars                  
Corsets                  
Cuffs                  
Cutting                  
Dilation                  
Double penetration                  
Ear plugs                  
Electricity                  
Enemas                  
Examinations                  
Exhibitionism                  
Eye contact restrictions                  
Face slapping                  
Fantasy gang rape                  
Fantasy rape                  
Fisting                  
Flogging                  
Following orders                  
Foot worship                  
Forced dressing                  
Forced feminization                  
Forced homosexuality                  
Forced masturbation                  
Forced nudity                  
Forced servitude                  
Genital sex                  
Given away                  
Golden showers                  
Group play                  
Hair pulling                  
Hairbrushes                  
Harnessing                  
High heel worship                  
Homage with tongue                  
Hoods                  
Hot wax - dripping                  
Hot waxing - hair removal                  
Housework                  
Human puppy dog                  
Humiliation in private                  
Humiliation in public                  
Ice cubes                  
Infantilism                  
Initiation rites                  
Injections                  
Interrogations                  
Intricate rope bondage                  
Kidnapping                  
Kneeling                  
Leather restraints                  
Lecturing                  
Mantra and meditation                  
Massage - getting                  
Massage - giving                  
Medical scenes                  
Model for erotic pictures                  
Mouth bits                  
Name change                  
Nipple clamps                  
Nipple weights                  
Oral - getting                  
Oral - giving to opposite sex                  
Oral - giving to same sex                  
Orgasm control                  
Orgasm denial                  
Outdoor scenes                  
Over-the-knee spanking                  
Paddling                  
Personality modification                  
Phone sex                  
Piercing (perm)                  
Piercing (temp)                  
Prison scenes                  
Prostitution, real or fantasy                  
Pussy whipping                  
Pussy worship                  
Riding crops                  
Rimming                  
Rituals                  
Religious scenes                  
Rope bondage                  
Rubber/latex clothing                  
Saran wrapping                  
Scarification                  
Scratching - getting                  
Scratching - giving                  
Sensory deprivation                  
Serving as a maid                  
Serving as a pony                  
Serving as furniture/art                  
Serving as toilet                  
Serving orally                  
Serving other Doms (supervised only)                  
Sexual deprivation                  
Shaving                  
Sleep deprivation                  
Slutty clothing                  
Spandex clothing                  
Spanking                  
Speculums                  
Speech Restrictions, what and when..                  
Spreader bars                  
Stable (serving with other submissives)                  
Standing in corner                  
Stocks                  
Straight jackets                  
Strap-on-dildos                  
Strapping                  
Suspension                  
Swapping                  
Swinging                  
Tape gags                  
Tattooing                  
Teasing                  
Thumb cuffs                  
Tickling                  
Triple penetration                  
Uniforms                  
Verbal humiliation                  
Videotaped Scenes                  
Voyeurism                  
Whipping                  
Wooden paddles                  
Wrestling                  
   
Any allergies that the Dom(me) should be aware? (if yes, describe:)  
Any medical conditions? (if yes, give details:)  
Any specific subject not described in this list that the Dom(me) should be concern with? (if yes describe:)  
 

ŠTHE BDSM CIRCLE 2002