To The Question:

You are... / Vous êtes...

Here are the answers:

70 are men (59 %)

40 are women (33%)

5 are other than the above (TG, TV) (4 %)

3 didn't want to answer (2 %)

Total of answers 118 (98 %)

(98 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

You are... / Vous êtes...

Here are the answers:

75 are Dominant / Top (25%)

149 are Submissive /Bottom (50%)

35 are Switch (11%)

31 are Curious (10%)

3 didn't want to answer (1 %)

Total of answers 293 (97 %)

(97 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

BDSM is composed of:

BD = Bondage and discipline

DS = Dominance and Submission

SM = Sadism and Masochism

To The Question:

In BDSM, Y/you like:

Here are the answers:

23 like BD (10%)

43 like DS (18%)

19 like SM (8%)

46 like BD and DS (20%)

12 like DS and SM (5%)

13 like BD and SM (5%)

61 like BD, DS and SM (26%)

10 are Curious (4%)

1 didn't want to answer (0 %)

Total of answers 228 (96 %)

(96 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

Y/your BDSM experience has been:

Here are the answers:

56 Online only (16%)

99 Real life only (29%)

124 Online and real life (36%)

62 Just Curious (18%)

Total of answers 341 (99 %)

(99 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

The most effective method to correct a subs:

Here are the answers:

173 Corporal Punishment (48%)

33 Sending sub home (9%)

5 Lecturing the submissive (1%)

52 Denial of previleges (14%)

87 All of the above (24%)

4 None of the above (others) (1%)

5 No opinions on this subject (1%)

Total of answers 359 (98 %)

(98 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

What is Y/your best source for BDSM information:

Here are the answers:

13 Books (4%)

219 internet (81%)

27 Friends, mentors (10%)

4 Others (1%)

5 I don't need information (1%)

Total of answers 268 (97 %)

(97 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

What is Y/your favourite way to dress for a scene?

Here are the answers:

59 Leather (18%)

44 Latex (13%)

8 Lycra/spandex (2%)

9 Pvc (2%)

47 Lingerie (14%)

4 Street clothes (1%)

26 Anything in black (7%)

86 In the nude/No clothing (26%)

32 I don't care what I wear (9%)

12 Other (3%)

Total of answers 327 (95 %)

(95 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

What type os scene do you like?

Here are the answers:

86 I only play privately (my bedroom) (41%)

5 I only play publicly (public party and dungeon) (2%)

78 I love both, private and public play (38%)

36 I am just curious (17%)

Total of answers 205 (98 %)

(98 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

In a BDSM scene, for you sex is:

Here are the answers:

28 BDSM is not sex, no sex play in a scene (8%)

75 like a bit of sex in a scene (oral for instance) (23%)

195 BDSM and sex go together (full intercourse) (61%)

17 Just curious, no opinion (5%)

Total of answers 315 (97 %)

(97 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

What type of relationship do you have in BDSM?

Here are the answers:

36 I have only casual partners, no relationship (8%)

47 I play repeatedly with a small group of people (11%)

223 I only play with one person (exlusive relationship) (54%)

46 other(not in this list) (11%)

60 No opinion, just curious (14%)

Total of answers 412 (98 %)

(98 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

For you, how important is it for your partner to have experience in BDSM?

Here are the answers:

39 It is NOT important at all (10%)

70 It depends of the type of experience (online or real) (19%)

60 It is of average importance (16%)

146 Is is very important (41%)

40 No opinion, just curious (11%)

Total of answers 355 (97 %)

(97 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

What is the frequency of your BDSM scening?

Here are the answers:

59 Many scenes per week (16%)

53 One scene a week (14%)

71 A couple of scenes per month (19%)

30 One scene a month (8%)

63 A couple of scenes per year (17%)

8 One scene a year (2%)

14 One scene every few years (4%)

74 No opinion, just curious (20%)

Total of answers 372 (100 %)

(rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

Why are you interested in BDSM?

Here are the answers:

26 Because it is underground dark and mysterious (5%)

115 It satisfied my need of kinky sex (23%)

279 I love this type of relationship based on power exchanged (56%)

43 Others (9%)

37 Just curious, no opinion (7%)

Total of answers 500 (100 %)

(rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

Your BDSM is....?

Here are the answers:

216 Very secret and nobody's business (46%)

164 Only a select few people know about my BDSM. (35%)

53 Many know about it. I don't advertise it, but I don't hide it. (11%)

12 I want all the world to know about my love of BDSM. (3%)

28 Just curious, no opinion (6%)

Total of answers 473 (101 %)

(101 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

Who, between men and women, you think answer the most to personal ads?

Here are the answers:

360 Men (64%)

98 Women. (17%)

66 Both equally. (12%)

39 Just curious, no opinion (7%)

Total of answers 563 (100 %)

To The Question:

BDSM is for you....:

Here are the answers:

424 A kinky sex game. (48%)

326 A lifestyle. (37%)

89 Just curious. (10%)

34 other. (4%)

3 No opinion (1%)

Total of answers 876 (100 %)

To The Question:

Do you live with your BDSM partner?

Here are the answers:

233 I don't have a BDSM partner. (37%)

158 Yes, I live with my BDSM partner. (25%)

144 No, I don't live with my BSM partner (23%)

77 Just curious. (12%)

13 Other (2%)

Total of answers 625 (99 %)

(99 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

To The Question:

De you feel that you are part of a BDSM/Fetish community?

Here are the answers:

95 Yes I belong to a community. (16%)

256 No, I don't belong to a community. (44%)

79 Is there a community? (14%)

19 No opinion, don't know (3%)

131 Just curious (23%)

Total of answers 580 (100 %)

To The Question:

To know more about the people who visit us, for the question "you are a?" please use the answer that you think is best to describe yourself

Here are the answers:

41 Female Domme. (4%)

165 Female submissive. (17%)

31 Female switch. (3%)

6 Female, but I don't know what I am BDSM wise. (1%)

28 Female curious. (3%)

141 Male Dom. (14%)

331 Male submissive. (34%)

89 Male switch. (9%)

23 Male, but I don't know what I am BDSM wise. (2%)

59 Male curious. (6%)

3 TS / TG Dom(me) (0%)

32 TS / TG submissive. (3%)

7 TS / TG switch. (1%)

5 TS, / TG but I don't know what I am BDSM wise. (1%)

8 TS / TG curious. (1%)

4 others. (0%)

9 Don't want to answer. (1%)

Total of answers 982 (100 %)

To The Question:

Do you beleive that a 24/7 DS relationship based on the BDSM philosphy is possible?

Here are the answers:

326 Yes, it is! . (54%)

130 No, it is not possible! . (21%)

137 I don't know. (23%)

13 Others. (2%)

Total of answers 606 (100 %)

To The Question:

Are you looking for a BDSM long term relationship or are you looking for a BDSM short relationship (one night stand)?

Here are the answers:

380 A long terme relationship. (63%)

85 A short term relationship (one night's stand) . (14%)

34 No BDSM relationship . (6%)

25 Other. (4%)

81 Just curious. (13%)

Total of answers 605 (100 %)

Comment from the visitors:

- I hope its perminant. .......MCNTK

To The Question:

In your BDSM activities, do you use any type of breath control (as a Dom(me) or a sub)

Here are the answers:

65 Yes, all the time . (12%)

143 Sometimes . (26%)

126 No, but interested . (23%)

211 Never. (38%)

15 Other. (2%)

Total of answers 560 (101 %)

(101 % because of rounded figures by the poll service.)

Comment from the visitors:

- Bonjour à tous

Le contrôle de la respiraton fait toujours partie intégrante de plusisuers de nos jeux. Il faut parcontre avoir un désir et plaisir pour jouer avec ce genre de discipline. De plus le contrôle de la respiration doit être soutenu et doté d'une grande connaissance de l'autre , de soi même et d'une sécurité absolu lors de ce jeu.......Maîtresse Zyra

- i used to do breathe control...and then i thought "well, IF something did accidentally go wrong, i wouldn't want to spend the rest of my life in jail for it, and there really is no way to be truly safe with breathe control" *if you are going to, please learn cpr and only do it with someone you TRUST and have been with a long while.......chicka